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Romantic AI Bots: Canary in the Coal Mine?

Can you relate to this scenario in any way? Your alarm goes off – and you glance over to see your spouse lying next to you – and the first thought you think is, “Who the heck is that?!” But then, your memories come flooding back & you remind yourself to feel grateful he/she is in your life. You get out of bed – and another thought flashes through your mind, “I hope he doesn’t wake up, so I can have my morning to myself.” And, the week goes on like this – with the two of you being ships passing in the night.

Recognizing Your Own & Your Partner’s Wounded Child State

I have been exploring how it becomes possible for a couple to create an extraordinary relationship – and what is necessary for each in the relationship to be able to be fully present and love to their greatest capacity. I spoke about the three primary ego states (the critic, the wounded child and the Aware […]

What Makes for an Extraordinary Romantic Relationship?

The beginnings of a romance and relationship can be so beautiful! We’re carried away with love & attraction! The honeymoon stage is truly a gift to humankind. If we didn’t have it, we would never have coupledom, let alone join to create a family! The creative works of poets, philosophers, musicians and artists have been inspired by this ecstatic stage for thousands of years.

Set the Stage to Find Your Ideal Mate!

“Kim has such an amazing enthusiasm about this work. And, you can tell that she doesn’t just teach this, she lives it! It’s so inspiring to me!” – Fabien Lagrange, workshop participant

How to Have a Breakthrough in Love!

I have good news for you: all that you have been experiencing does not have to repeat itself any more! There is a completely different way to approach all of this! And this does not involve losing those ten pounds, getting a face lift or moving to the city for a larger dating pool.

The Gems of My Twenty Years of Playing in the Field of Helping People Attract & Create Thriving

In the past few years, I have been taking the gems from my twenty plus years of intensely playing in the field of helping people attract and create thriving healthy relationships – and melding the practical communication skills I teach with deep inner work. What I have observed from my own process in love – and in working with hundreds of clients – is that most of us are programmed by our previous trauma and react unconsciously when the feelings from our past emotional pain get triggered. Nowhere does this show up more powerfully than in intimate close relationships, preventing us from reaching our fullest capacity to love and be loved.

How Do I Step into My Whole Aware Self to Create an Extraordinary Relationship?

In previous blogs and workshops, I explore the phenomenon that, in order for us to be able to create a conscious loving dynamic relationship, we must be able to LIVE from our aware self, that is our true empowered wise & worthy adult whole self.. and step out of those parts of us who are wounded or critical & judgmental. When two people who love one another begin to relate mostly from their aware selves, the partnership becomes an amazing opportunity to grow and increase our capacity to love and be loved.